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Wed, Sep 01, 2010

[Icon][Icon]Classes

• Post categories: Omni, Health, Exercise, My Life
Having been a member of the gym for a few months, I thought I should start looking at some of their classes. They're all free, for starters. And I still have those aches and pains that just won't go away.. So I started this evening with yoga. An hour… more »
 

Mon, Aug 30, 2010

[Icon][Icon]A message I sent Yahoo re. their toolbar

• Post categories: Omni, Rant, Technology, My Life
I am SERIOUSLY ****** off that this piece of **** made it onto my computer - I have *never* installed the toolbar, and when installing the IM client always take particular care to avoid doing so. Finding it on my computer after a reboot when I know for a… more »
 

Tue, Aug 24, 2010

[Icon][Icon]Useful command-line things

• Post categories: Omni, FOSS, Technology, My Life, Helpful
Pretty much everything I do is command-line based these days. So I thought I'd post a few of the things I've found useful lately. {}s when moving or copying files.You know when you want to copy a file in a directory that isn't your current one? e.g.… more »
 

Sat, Aug 21, 2010

[Icon][Icon]Twitter on trial

• Post categories: Omni, My Life
As you'll see if you look in my sidebar, there's now an entry for twitter, as well as the facebook & other entries that have been there for ages. I'll give it a go and see how I get on with it. No promises either way.. more »
 

Fri, Aug 20, 2010

[Icon][Icon]I'm back

• Post categories: Omni, My Life
I know, I never actually said I was going anywhere.. Meh. Like it makes a difference. I left work on Friday and got a stunned "You're not coming back on Monday??" look from the boss (who'd okayed the holiday in the first place) Went camping. Not my us… more »
 

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La parte A se refiere solamente a las dos novelas estudiadas. La parte A debe ser preparada después de leer la primera mitad de la novela y contestar las siguientes preguntas: ¿te está gustando la novela/película o no, y por qué? No me gusta la novela. Las personajes que puedes gustar son superficiales, o hacen [...][Link to post]06/08/10 - SPN3730 diario: Pascual Duarte parte A

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Isn't this exciting? We're out of the tedium of Genesis (world created, man falls, many people live and die. Oh, and attempted forced buggery and a spot of incest). We're into Exodus now; the Bible has got going, that tricky first chapter is out of the way and the real action can start! When the [...]

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03/08/10 - The Bible ? On The Waterfront

[icon] Advice From a Single Girl

I was giddy and hopeful when I first met Cary and spent a brief amount of time with him.

The week after that I was happily high on the idea of what could be, the possibility of getting to know someone interesting and intriguing, the wide open potential of what could be.

And I wanted to tell my friends all about him and what had, and hadn't happened, but I also wanted to keep it to myself, sealed safely in the happy bubble that was floating inside me. So I talked to some close friends about him, told them he lived in Vancouver and they, meaning well, told me quite firmly that they would not allow me to go through another long distance relationship. That I shouldn't even consider it.

My bubble had been burst.

I was completely deflated. Hurt. Let down.

I talked to C-Dawg, a sad tinge to the story now that I'd been told it could. . . should never work out.

"Vancouver?" she said, her voice somewhere between amused and incredulous. "That's not long distance! Get serious. Go for it."

And I let my bubble maybe start to re-inflate. Cautiously. Maybe just a little.

Then I talked to my friend about Cary. She said good things.

Maybe there was reason to be hopefully optimistic. Maybe it was ok to be a little girly and dreamy over what-ifs.

I went for a walk with S. We had life to catch up on.

Life including Cary and the story that still makes me smile.

She encouraged me to get his email, which I did, and then she went home and tried to find out what she could about him.

See, I'm not on Facebook. (No, really.) But S is, and in the small world way that Facebook seems to work, she found that Cary and she had a mutual friend and so she looked him up for me. (The modern background check.)

You can sometimes tell a lot about a person by what they put on their Facebook, she cautioned me. Sometimes.

How old is he?

Me: I don't know.

Is he a smoker?

Me: Um, I don't know? (God, I hope not)

Could he maybe be a little bit immature?

Me: I don't know. I suppose.

Well, he seems like a good guy. Cute. Interesting. I'd say he was my type, you know. (We laugh, we already know we share similar excellent taste in men.)

"I say go for it." She says, "just be aware that he's human. Not perfect."

I don't want to hear it.

Don't want to know the reality of him.

Find myself running away from all the what might have been's towards it'll never work what what I thinking's.

It's all or nothing. Perfect or awful. It'll work or it'll be a disaster.

And I realize that my bubble, the one that's been growing and floating inside me will burst on its own, without anyone's help if I get too far into imagining just how great Cary is, how great we'd be together, how perfectly perfect it all will be.

I'm Icarus. My friends don't want me flying too close to the sun.

But I like the feeling.

I like the soaring giddiness of how utterly fantastic this thing I've found will be.

Every single time I meet someone I like that feeling.

And I ride it higher and higher until I'm flapping my bare arms, feathers fallen into the sea and the crash is coming, the relationship splintering and I'm left staring at the brokenness wondering how on earth I could have been so wrong again.

The extremes are familiar. Addictive perhaps.

But I'm trying to learn to ride in the middle.

Safer. A shorter distance to fall.

A smaller bubble to burst.

Expectations that can be met and exceeded.

A safe, yet joyful and giddy flight. Wings intact.
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03/09/10 - Icarus

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